Life is to love and to care, we have often heard people saying “love all and hate none”. “Life is too short to love, I don’t know how people get time to hate”, is a very commonly quoted saying. Most of the people just keep these saying to the theories, they never practice them. While some try and just fail to imply this “love all and hate none” theory to their life.

I am going to discuss certain things that surely will give you a new perspective, a new life.
Let’s start by seeing the world at two ends, my end and the other people’s end. It is the relationship between these ends that is called love. We can only work on our end, we cannot amend somebody, we cannot change somebody else. We can only change our self.

To start with, make a rule, do not expect. Keep in mind that disappointment is the difference between the expectation and the reality. So do not expect. If you do not expect, you will not be disappointed and nobody’s will ever hurt you
Secondly, change your mentality, change the way you think. Don’t be pessimistic; neither should you be over optimistic. Be neutral, with a slightest touch of optimism. Being over optimistic will again lead you to expectations. Thirdly, don’t keep an ego factor in yourself. If you don’t have one nobody will ever be able to bruise your ego. No ego, no fights
Then, keep a forgiving attitude, forgive and forget. But keep one thing in mind that forgiving somebody doesn’t means to allow that person to hurt you once again.
Lastly, if you dislike someone very much and loathe even the sight of their face, and you cannot forgive them then don’t confront them. Don’t be around them, and don’t let them be around you. Don’t hate just avoid (you will still be following half the quotation “love all and hate none” by not hating anyone)

Life is to love, not to hate or to keep grudges. If you dislike somebody very much, then take my advice don’t confront them. Instead of fighting with them and shouting at them, just don’t think about them. If somebody hurts you just ignore it because fighting with that person won’t indemnify your loss

ali khalid